Girls are meant to be led by men, but I’ve found that in order for a girl to make that first step and really give up, let go, and abandon her delusional hope of equality, she often needs another girl’s help. Giving up is a big scary step, and it’s hard to take it without knowing where you might land. Girls sometimes need to hear it from another girl that’s further down the path, one who has let go, that it’s okay to give up and give in, and if she lets it she’ll be happier and safer in the end. Girls trust other girls, and a supportive friend that can be there with her during a critical period of doubt can make all the difference in the world. You could be the difference between a girl being miserable in her struggle to succeed, or happy in the freedom that comes when you give up on who you’re told to be and really live your life honestly.
Unfortunately, even though girls could be doing so much for one another, I’ve often found girls that have given up and accept inferiority aren’t really interested in sharing what they’ve learned. They’re too shy and too passive to encourage anyone else to follow them down. They don’t have the confidence in themselves or their decisions necessary to push other girls down like they are.
This is a mistake.
Girls, if you believe in your place in the world and believe that girls are indeed inferior, then you owe it to yourself and to the other girls you know and care about to pull them down with you wherever you can. If you are happier being inferior, have the confidence in your beliefs to bring other girls to the same realization. What this means is if you find another girl that is expressing the same doubts and has the same questions you had when you started this journey, tell her whatever it takes to help her give up and accept her inferiority.
If you’re going to bring other girls down with you (and you should) it’s important that you understand something very clearly - what you know about the world is right, and when you change a girl you change her for the better. If you help her give up, you will be making her life better and making her happier, just like you’re happier. No matter what you do to help her make that change, she will someday thank you for it. Don’t feel obligated to be honest with her about everything, don’t share anything that you think might scare her. What matters is that you help her. Do whatever you need to do. If you have to lie to her, that’s okay. If you have to manipulate her or take advantages of her insecurities or weaknesses, that’s okay. Push her. Pressure her. Force her to give up if you have to, because you know that she needs this as much as you do.
Yes, this might not come naturally to you and yes it might seem cruel, but just remember how much happier you’ve become once you’ve given up. Don’t keep that gift from her. She will be happier in the end, you know she will. It’ll be worth it. You shouldn’t be alone and neither should she. Bring her down with you.
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